Hello World!
Sorry I've been absent. Randy's on vacation this week and we're doing home improvement stuff. (He's currently at Home Depot buying more supplies.)
So, while I'd love to catch up, I can't.
Hopefully when I do return, I'll have a few projects under my belt, a decluttered home and a family back to work and school.
Meanwhile, I'm thinking of my word for 2012. I think I've got it already, but not giving it away until I can properly write about it.
For now... carry on and Happy New Year!
29 December, 2011
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20 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
The girls felt the need to "rearrange" the presents under the Christmas tree yesterday. In other words... they wanted an accurate count of the number of presents they each had.
Just for the record, I was informed that Kyla has 12 and Elisan has 11. (Ooops!)
19 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
Here's a Christmas "Meme" for you!
Wrapping paper. I'm sorry, but there is nothing fun about ripping into a gift bag!
Real tree or artificial?
Artificial
When do you put up the decoration and tree?
Weekend after Thanksgiving, but this year, I'll probably shoot for the first weekend in December.
When do you take the tree down?
The weekend after Christmas (or sooner!)
Do you have a nativity scene?
No, but I'd like to eventually get a really nice one.
Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate?
Hot chocolate, homemade variety is by far the best!
Colored lights on tree or white?
Colored lights
What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)?
My mother’s gumbo
What is your favorite Holiday Dessert or snack?
I love the homemade Texas trash
Favorite Holiday memory (or gift) as a child?
Santa bringing me a Honda 50 dirtbike when I was 7 years old.
When and how did you learn the truth about Santa?
Not sure…
Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve?
Never! Well, unless we’re gathering with extended family.
How do you decorate your Christmas tree?
Lots and lots of snowmen! And stuff that the girls have made.
What’s the most important thing about the Holidays for you?
The true meaning of Christmas – the birth of Jesus Christ
What is your favorite tradition?
Spending Christmas Eve night with my Dad’s family when I was younger.
Which do you prefer, Giving or Receiving?
Both
What is your favorite Christmas Song?
God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen by DMB
Candy Canes! Yuck or Yum?
I don’t care for them, but I wouldn’t go so far as to say “yuck”
Hardest person to buy for?
Randy, because he never wants anything.
Easiest person to buy for?
The girls
Mail or email Christmas cards?
Mail photo cards
Worst Christmas gift you ever received?
No comment!
Favorite Christmas Movie/Show?
Charlie Brown Christmas - I love the musical score.
When do you start shopping for Christmas?
Christmas shopping? Oh, yeah... I better get started!
Have you ever recycled a Christmas present?
Not that I know of.
Favorite Christmas song?
God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen/We Three Kings - by Bare Naked Ladies w/Sarah MacLachlan
Travel at Christmas or stay home?
Travel for a day or two, but arrive back home before Christmas Day.
Can you name all of Santa's reindeers?
Only if I sing the song "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer"
Angel on the tree top or a star?
Neither. I use a big ol' ribbon bow
Most annoying thing about this time of year?
The crowds and "Happy Holidays"
Does Santa leave the gifts wrapped or unwrapped?
Unwrapped
Do you leave goodies for Santa on Christmas Eve?
Yes, cookies and milk of course.
Okay y'all! Join in the fun! Copy and paste this list of questions and answer them on your blog! Leave a link in my comments section so we can all read about your Christmas traditions!
18 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
As I was pulling into the parking lot to
bring Kyla to see Santa... she changed her mind.
Sigh...
17 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
Finally! Some decent pictures of the kids in front of the Christmas tree!
16 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
Last night, Elisan and I finished up the teacher gifts. This year, I kept it simple and inexpensive. I bought each teacher a metal tin (found at Hobby Lobby for 50% off) and filled it with dark chocolate kisses, chocolate mint patties and peppermints.
I also designed a set of four notecards (16 notecards per teacher) with each teacher's name on it. I printed these up at Kinko's in black and white, using my own cardstock.
Cost breakdown:
Tins $10.00 ($1.00 each x10)
Printing at Kinkos: $8.00 (for 40 pages)
Candy: $7.00 (1 bag kisses, 1 bag of mint patties, 1 bag of peppermints)
Ribbon/Cardstock/Envelopes/Clear Gift Bags: From my personal stash
TOTAL: $25.00 (divided by 10 = $2.50/teacher)
Here are the personalized cards I designed for each teacher. I used this design two years ago and it was so popular, I decided to update it a bit and use it again.
Custom "Motherisms" Notecards
15 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
The second picture was taken at the indoor soccer game last night with my new telephoto lens. I still need to read up on the best way to take indoor action shots (without a flash) to minimize blur... but aside from all of that... check out the picture.
The team was lined up for a penalty kick on our team. The top picture shows the girls "suppossedly" getting ready to block the kick. The bottom picture shows the girls' reaction to having a ball kicked at them.
You know what they say... even dynamite comes in small packages... I think we have our very own stick of dynamite on our hands!
14 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
It's the Christmas Blogging Challenge edition of Erica's Blog Brain Dump.
So, I've said it time and time again... I WILL NOT ever be a room mother for either of my children's classes. Never, ever, ever, ever!
Of course now because I used the word NEVER, I'm sure I'll sign up for it next year. But, as it stands for now, I have no desire to hold the position of room mother. Honestly, I just can't deal with the 1.) Hover parents; 2.) Parents who never contribute; 3.) Parents who think they can do a better job.
Unfortunately, I tend to fall into the 3rd category. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to help, pitch in, donate money, drive the field trip car pool... you name it. But, it seems as if there is always some event (party or field trip) that goes awry for one reason or another. I know, it's a thankless job and someone has to do it...yadda, yadda, yadda... I'm just glad it ain't me.
So, for now, I'm minding my P's & Q's, and doing what is asked of me. But, it's not without mild grumbling here and there.
Any room mother's out there that want to use my blog as an open forum to vent? Feel free to comment!
I just ordered another new camera lens for my camera and I'm pretty excited about it. It's all part of my birthday/anniversary present from Randy. He basically gave me an allotment to spend however I wanted. So, I chose camera lenses. I ordered a AF-S Nikkor 50mm f/1.8G Lens (or Prime lens). Last week, my AF-S NIKKOR 55-300mm f/4.5-5.6G ED VR Zoom Lens arrived and I love it!
I ordered my camera and both lens from B&H Photo Video and I could not be more happy with them. They are in New York, so everything I've purchased from them has been tax-free. Plus, the shipping has been free as well. Their pricing is also very competitive. If you are in the market for anything camera related and do not mind buying online, try B&H.
Our family doctor recently recommended some books for Elisan to read. The books are "The Princess and the Goblin" and "The Princess and Curdie" by George MacDonald. Published in 1872, the books are fantasy books with a Christian message on faith for both children and adults alike. (Think C.S. Lewis.)
I mention this because the books are free to download on Kindle. So far, she really likes it. I'm so thankful for a Christian doctor!
Each year I have a set budget of what I spend on each girl for Christmas. So far, I've found some really great deals and I'm happy with my purchases. However, I still need to pick up a few more things, but I'm having a really hard time finding that perfect gift for them this year. We are not doing a "big" Santa type present this year, so they are getting a lot of little things. So ye old wise Internets... any suggestions for 8 & 10 year old girls?
That's all for now. I need to get up from this computer and work on finishing the teacher gifts. Hopefully I can upload a picture of the teacher gifts on tomorrow's blog installment.
13 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
I realized I have yet to update my blog with our family vacation to Disney World!
We had an amazing time! The girls are the perfect age for Disney and I feel blessed that we were able to bring them. It was also a great time to go, because we were able to see Disney in full Christmas decor mode.
The biggest highlight of the trip was that both Kyla and Elisan were tall enough for ALL of the rides. It was so fun to see Kyla riding the BIG coasters for the first time... and LOVE it.
We stayed at the fabulous Port Orleans Riverside resort which is considered a "moderate" resort. But, having previously stayed at a "deluxe" resort, I can without a doubt say that the Riverside resort was better than the deluxe resort (and about $1000.00 cheaper!)
As with our last trip, everything was first class. The food, the parks, the shows, the transportation, the accommodations. It's almost a crime to admit it... but I'm ready to plan our next trip! :)
Here are some of my favorite pictures from our trip.
12 December, 2011
11 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
We recently celebrated an anniversary around here. Over Thanksgiving, we celebrated the 1 year anniversary of the arrival of T.J. into our home.
It's never been truly determined what type of breed T.J. actually is, but I'm pretty sure he's 95% Maltese. I call him our Malti-Mutt (or dirty Maltese).
- He's a true lap dog . He shows no favoritism. He just wants a warm body to snuggle up with.
- He is a smart dog. He rings his bell to go outside to play or take care of business.
- He's a polite dog. He will hang out in his crate when we are eating our meals at the table... which means, there's no begging for food!
- He's our watch dog. At night, he sleeps at the top of the stairs between the master bedroom and the girls' bedroom.
- He's an athletic dog. (Here's video to prove it.)
- He's mild-mannered and sweet. He dosen't bark, yelp, nip or bite. He loves strangers and his biggest crime is licking you to death.
- Randy even loves him. (Go figure... men CAN love white fluffy dogs!)
Hands down, T.J. is the best dog we could have ever asked for.
If you are considering a family pet, might I suggest a maltese or even a malti-mutt. I don't think you'll be disappointed.
10 December, 2011
My heart is heavy
Today while making a stop into Kinko's, I learned that Amy passed away.
You may remember Amy in this post, in which I wrote about how I met her for the first time. Amy worked at Kinko's and she was battling her 3rd round of cancer.
In August, I saw Amy again, and she said her new (non-chemotherapy) cancer treatment was working and that her and her husband were applying to become foster parents. She was happy and excited about this chapter of life. She had just celebrated her 30th birthday.
Today, I learned that in October, Amy's doctor detected that the cancer had spread and because the chemotherapy had ravaged her body in years past, they were unable to give her additional chemotherapy to stop the growth of the new cancer.
She died two weeks later.
Amy was a Christian and she loved the Lord. I'm saddened by this news, but thankful she is no longer in pain and is in the loving arms of our Savior.
You may remember Amy in this post, in which I wrote about how I met her for the first time. Amy worked at Kinko's and she was battling her 3rd round of cancer.
In August, I saw Amy again, and she said her new (non-chemotherapy) cancer treatment was working and that her and her husband were applying to become foster parents. She was happy and excited about this chapter of life. She had just celebrated her 30th birthday.
Today, I learned that in October, Amy's doctor detected that the cancer had spread and because the chemotherapy had ravaged her body in years past, they were unable to give her additional chemotherapy to stop the growth of the new cancer.
She died two weeks later.
Amy was a Christian and she loved the Lord. I'm saddened by this news, but thankful she is no longer in pain and is in the loving arms of our Savior.
09 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
Just in time for school Christmas parties! A freebie goodie bag printable! For best results, print on cardstock.
Christmas Fold-over Goodie Bag Tag.
Click on this link to download the .pdf version.
You can also right-click to save image and print directly via the web,
but you will have to tweek/adjust the printing size.
You can also right-click to save image and print directly via the web,
but you will have to tweek/adjust the printing size.
Use sandwich size or snack size resealable baggies!
Enjoy!
08 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
For my birthday, Randy bought me a new camera lens! I wanted a telephoto zoom lens, especially since I take a lot of outdoor action photos of the girls playing soccer. The 55mm-300mm lens arrived yesterday and I'm already lovin' it!
Here's a picture, taken from across the room with two different focal points. The top photo, I focused on the snowman. The bottom picture, I focused on the light. I love how crisp and clear each photo is!
07 December, 2011
Christmas Blogging Challenge
If you were to ask me, "Do Elisan and Kyla get along?" My answer will unequivocally be and without hesitation a resounding, "YES!" In fact, I often brag about how they consider each other to be their best friend. That is... until today.
The proof is in this note left in Elisan's room today.
"Elisan smells like dog poop and rotin banana."
I'm impressed she spelled banana correctly!
This is definitely one for posterity.
Have I mentioned I love my girls? Even when they are little toots?
06 December, 2011
Oh MY! I've been remiss!
Okay, so it has come to my attention that I am an official slacker! I totally forgot about my annual "25 Days of Christmas Blogging Challenge" that I do Every. Single. Year.
Okay, so yeah, I suck. Can I say that here? And still be a family friendly blog?
So, starting TODAY, I'm going to revamp my 25 Days of Christmas Blogging Challenge and officially rename the challenge to the 20 Days of Christmas Blogging Challenge (or the more suitable Christmas Blogging Challenge). Whatever...
So, grab my banner and join me for the next 20 days as I attempt to blog everyday until Christmas. (BTW, this one counts as one.)
And please, I just turned 39 yesterday, so cut me some slack will ya? I'm getting old.
Okay, so yeah, I suck. Can I say that here? And still be a family friendly blog?
So, starting TODAY, I'm going to revamp my 25 Days of Christmas Blogging Challenge and officially rename the challenge to the 20 Days of Christmas Blogging Challenge (or the more suitable Christmas Blogging Challenge). Whatever...
So, grab my banner and join me for the next 20 days as I attempt to blog everyday until Christmas. (BTW, this one counts as one.)
And please, I just turned 39 yesterday, so cut me some slack will ya? I'm getting old.
28 November, 2011
15 November, 2011
Perhaps I am stronger than I think.
I saw this quote at the gym and knew I needed to have it posted everywhere. So, here it is as an iPod screensaver.
To download this design, simply click on the image, right click to "save as". There ya have it.
Enjoy!
To download this design, simply click on the image, right click to "save as". There ya have it.
Enjoy!
11 November, 2011
My newest obsession?
Perhaps "obsession" is too strong of a word... but my newest fun find? Perhaps!
During one of my many moves while I was single, along the way, one of my boxes got lost... left behind... or fell off the truck. Something like that.
It was a box full of music CD's and cassettes. This was long before iTunes and CD's back then were nearly $20/each, so as you can imagine this was a heart wrenching loss.
Along comes iTunes and it made it easier to "replace" my lost music for a nominal fee. And, what was even better, I'd only buy the songs I really liked.
But, I had some albums that I really loved. Like, loved every single song. But, really, I didn't want to spend $10.00 on iTunes for the complete album, so I began looking on eBay. And let me tell you... there are some good deals to be had.
I recently bought "The Best of War and More" (they sing "Low Rider" and "Why Can't We Be Friends" to name a couple) for less than $4.00 (including shipping). My pop listened to this album ALL. THE. TIME. when I was growing up. Now, my kids love it too!
I've also bought Eric Clapton's "Unplugged", Journey's "Greatest Hits" and several Harry Connick, Jr. CD's all for less than $4.00.
AND, it's a CD. Not a digital file (like on iTunes).
So, looking to increase your music library or just need new tunes for your iPod? I'd encourage you to check out eBay.
(Next on my list is Chicago's "Greatest Hits" and Willie Nelson's "Red-Headed Stranger".)
During one of my many moves while I was single, along the way, one of my boxes got lost... left behind... or fell off the truck. Something like that.
It was a box full of music CD's and cassettes. This was long before iTunes and CD's back then were nearly $20/each, so as you can imagine this was a heart wrenching loss.
Along comes iTunes and it made it easier to "replace" my lost music for a nominal fee. And, what was even better, I'd only buy the songs I really liked.
But, I had some albums that I really loved. Like, loved every single song. But, really, I didn't want to spend $10.00 on iTunes for the complete album, so I began looking on eBay. And let me tell you... there are some good deals to be had.
I recently bought "The Best of War and More" (they sing "Low Rider" and "Why Can't We Be Friends" to name a couple) for less than $4.00 (including shipping). My pop listened to this album ALL. THE. TIME. when I was growing up. Now, my kids love it too!
I've also bought Eric Clapton's "Unplugged", Journey's "Greatest Hits" and several Harry Connick, Jr. CD's all for less than $4.00.
AND, it's a CD. Not a digital file (like on iTunes).
So, looking to increase your music library or just need new tunes for your iPod? I'd encourage you to check out eBay.
(Next on my list is Chicago's "Greatest Hits" and Willie Nelson's "Red-Headed Stranger".)
08 November, 2011
Blog Brain Dump
I'm happy to report that volleyball season has come to an end. And while Randy and I thoroughly enjoyed coaching the 5th grade volleyball team at school, I have to say... I'm glad it's over.
Because I was busy keeping the score book or running the scoreboard (or heck... even single-handedly coaching one of the last two games!) I was not able to get a lot of pictures of the action. But here's my favorite.
I have a new appreciation for coaches and what they do. It takes a lot to manage 15 girls on one team, guaranteeing everyone have equitable play time and keeping the parents from jumping down your throat all at the same time. Yep. It was fun and we can't wait to do it again next year!
We're also about to wrap up the Fall session of soccer. Despite the rocky start with Elisan not being placed on the team we felt she should be playing on, it's actually worked out favorably for her. Not only is she playing on her current team, but she's been invited to play on the other team when her schedule permits. In addition, Kyla has been playing up a level on Elisan's current team and has been consistently the high scorer for those games. In effect, my girls are playing anywhere from 2-3 soccer games a weekend and getting a lot of experience and having a blast!
I would have never ever in a million years thought I'd be writing these words, but I've been drinking green smoothies for the last couple of weeks and I can honestly say... I love them!
I found a general recipe online and I tweeked it to my liking. I drink it on the way to school and gym. It's so easy and I am satisfied for my entire workout.
Erica's Green Smoothie Breakfast
1 cup frozen mixed fruit (I use Mango, Papaya & Strawberry and Peaches -75 calories)
1/2 cup (or more) of baby spinach leaves (10 calories)
1/2 banana (approx 55 calories)
1 cup of Unsweetened Vanilla flavored Almond Milk (40 calories per 8oz)
1 scoop of vanilla protein powder (approx 90-125 calories - depending on brand)
Blend ingredients on high until smooth.
Approximately 275 - 300 calories (depending on protein powder used.)
Yes, I know it looks like guacamole. Yes, I know it doesn't look appealing at all... but trust me on this one. You CANNOT taste the spinach, but you can't deny the nutrients!
Speaking of recipes, I found a recipe on Pinterest that I made for a dinner gathering over the weekend. It's a recipe for Pumpkin Trifle from Taste of Home. It was super easy, tasted really good and everyone seemed to really like it. Plus, you can make this recipe with a lower calorie content by using lite cool whip and sugar-free butterscotch pudding. (I added toasted pecans on top.)
Wondering about my bowl? Yes, it's a glass covered cake stand/platter. I flipped the lid and used as a bowl. I also flipped the stand over to make a pedestal for the bowl. Looks classy huh?
Anyway, so that's it for now. We have less than 10 days until our Disney trip and we could not be more excited! Now, it's time to get packing!
Because I was busy keeping the score book or running the scoreboard (or heck... even single-handedly coaching one of the last two games!) I was not able to get a lot of pictures of the action. But here's my favorite.
I have a new appreciation for coaches and what they do. It takes a lot to manage 15 girls on one team, guaranteeing everyone have equitable play time and keeping the parents from jumping down your throat all at the same time. Yep. It was fun and we can't wait to do it again next year!
We're also about to wrap up the Fall session of soccer. Despite the rocky start with Elisan not being placed on the team we felt she should be playing on, it's actually worked out favorably for her. Not only is she playing on her current team, but she's been invited to play on the other team when her schedule permits. In addition, Kyla has been playing up a level on Elisan's current team and has been consistently the high scorer for those games. In effect, my girls are playing anywhere from 2-3 soccer games a weekend and getting a lot of experience and having a blast!
Here's the dynamic duo going in for a goal!
(Kyla is #2 and Elisan is #33)
I would have never ever in a million years thought I'd be writing these words, but I've been drinking green smoothies for the last couple of weeks and I can honestly say... I love them!
I found a general recipe online and I tweeked it to my liking. I drink it on the way to school and gym. It's so easy and I am satisfied for my entire workout.
Erica's Green Smoothie Breakfast
1 cup frozen mixed fruit (I use Mango, Papaya & Strawberry and Peaches -75 calories)1/2 cup (or more) of baby spinach leaves (10 calories)
1/2 banana (approx 55 calories)
1 cup of Unsweetened Vanilla flavored Almond Milk (40 calories per 8oz)
1 scoop of vanilla protein powder (approx 90-125 calories - depending on brand)
Blend ingredients on high until smooth.
Approximately 275 - 300 calories (depending on protein powder used.)
Yes, I know it looks like guacamole. Yes, I know it doesn't look appealing at all... but trust me on this one. You CANNOT taste the spinach, but you can't deny the nutrients!
Speaking of recipes, I found a recipe on Pinterest that I made for a dinner gathering over the weekend. It's a recipe for Pumpkin Trifle from Taste of Home. It was super easy, tasted really good and everyone seemed to really like it. Plus, you can make this recipe with a lower calorie content by using lite cool whip and sugar-free butterscotch pudding. (I added toasted pecans on top.)
Wondering about my bowl? Yes, it's a glass covered cake stand/platter. I flipped the lid and used as a bowl. I also flipped the stand over to make a pedestal for the bowl. Looks classy huh?
Anyway, so that's it for now. We have less than 10 days until our Disney trip and we could not be more excited! Now, it's time to get packing!
27 October, 2011
The Sleepover Debate
One of my favorite things to do growing up was to spend the night at a friends' house... or have a friend stay the night at our house. We'd stay up late, talk, make crank calls, make up dance moves, watch movies, eat junk food. It was fun.
And it must've been a nice break for my folks as well... A built in babysitter for the entire night. I never really thought of it from a parents' perspective until now.
But, now that I'm a parent, I have to say, my perspective is completely different and here's why.
Several years ago, one of our church pastors was asked to be a character witness for a man who was standing trial for Indecency With a Child. Our pastor felt 100% positive that the man on trial (his friend) was completely innocent of the charges.
But, there he was. On trial. For abusing a child.
I don't know all of the details surrounding the trial and that is really not important. All I know is that the daughter of the man on trial, had a friend who was spending the night at their home. And that child went home and told her parents that her friend's father touched her.
Let me play devil's advocate here. Say two girls are best friends at school. They have been best friends for years. The one friend has a boyfriend who has recently decided he didn't like her anymore. And let's say that boyfriend decided that he now likes the other friend. This happens on a Monday, at school... after a weekend sleepover.
What's to say, that in effort to hurt this girl (and subsequently her family) the "friend" tells a lie that the father touched her inappropriately while she was at their home over the weekend?
Granted... this may seem far fetched... but is it really?
I realize that sexual abuse runs rampant in our world. I'm not denying that fact or even suggesting that every girl that comes forward about sexual abuse is lying. Certainly not. As a mother of two girls I would believe my girls unequivocally if they ever told me about someone abusing them.
But here's the deal. My husband and I have made a mutual decision to not allow sleepovers at our home or at anyone else's home. It's not worth it. It's not worth someone or something coming against our family. I realize I cannot protect my children from everything, but if I can protect them in this way, I am going to do it.
Our daughter's know our rule and while they don't understand exactly why we are enforcing it, they know that it is for their protection. And it's across the board.
I recently had a mom friend ask me if Elisan could spend the night with them. And I had to tell her... it's not about you... it's about us and a rule we have to strictly enforce. If we break the rules for one friend, then we run into resistance the next time when another "good" friend invites her to their home for a sleepover.
The gist is... the world is not the same as it was when I was having sleepovers at a friend's house. It's just not. I have to take responsibility for my family, because at the end of the day... no one will protect my kids like Randy and me.
Am I extreme? Perhaps. What are your thoughts?
And it must've been a nice break for my folks as well... A built in babysitter for the entire night. I never really thought of it from a parents' perspective until now.
But, now that I'm a parent, I have to say, my perspective is completely different and here's why.
Several years ago, one of our church pastors was asked to be a character witness for a man who was standing trial for Indecency With a Child. Our pastor felt 100% positive that the man on trial (his friend) was completely innocent of the charges.
But, there he was. On trial. For abusing a child.
I don't know all of the details surrounding the trial and that is really not important. All I know is that the daughter of the man on trial, had a friend who was spending the night at their home. And that child went home and told her parents that her friend's father touched her.
Let me play devil's advocate here. Say two girls are best friends at school. They have been best friends for years. The one friend has a boyfriend who has recently decided he didn't like her anymore. And let's say that boyfriend decided that he now likes the other friend. This happens on a Monday, at school... after a weekend sleepover.
What's to say, that in effort to hurt this girl (and subsequently her family) the "friend" tells a lie that the father touched her inappropriately while she was at their home over the weekend?
Granted... this may seem far fetched... but is it really?
I realize that sexual abuse runs rampant in our world. I'm not denying that fact or even suggesting that every girl that comes forward about sexual abuse is lying. Certainly not. As a mother of two girls I would believe my girls unequivocally if they ever told me about someone abusing them.
But here's the deal. My husband and I have made a mutual decision to not allow sleepovers at our home or at anyone else's home. It's not worth it. It's not worth someone or something coming against our family. I realize I cannot protect my children from everything, but if I can protect them in this way, I am going to do it.
Our daughter's know our rule and while they don't understand exactly why we are enforcing it, they know that it is for their protection. And it's across the board.
I recently had a mom friend ask me if Elisan could spend the night with them. And I had to tell her... it's not about you... it's about us and a rule we have to strictly enforce. If we break the rules for one friend, then we run into resistance the next time when another "good" friend invites her to their home for a sleepover.
The gist is... the world is not the same as it was when I was having sleepovers at a friend's house. It's just not. I have to take responsibility for my family, because at the end of the day... no one will protect my kids like Randy and me.
Am I extreme? Perhaps. What are your thoughts?
14 October, 2011
Coming to terms
Well, I'm here to report that I WILL NOT be running a 1/2 marathon in November. Shocker, right?
Here's the deal... While I still have a strong desire to run a 1/2 marathon, it will not happen this year. I've been side-lined 2x this year with injuries - one in my hip and one in my sciatic nerve/piriformis muscle (a.k.a. butt). And, it's happening on the same side, which makes it even more frustating. When I begin making great progress, something begins to hurt OR I get extremely busy and neglect to put in the time it takes to train.
Really... it's just a bunch of excuses.
So, while I won't be running a 1/2 marathon this year, I would like to train for and run a 1/2 marathon by my 40th birthday.
Which is next year.
Um... yeah.
40.
Next year.
I'm in disbelief myself.
So all you local folks that are my in real life friends... what'd ya say? Anyone want to actually commit to run a 1/2 marathon with me next year?
12 October, 2011
Blog Brain Dump
The other day, I had a friend call me and ask if everything was okay. She said, "Well, I'm just calling to check on you because you not only quit Facebook, but you are taking a blog break."
The funny thing is, the blog break was totally unintentional. Seriously. I've just been so stinkin' busy that the thought of me sitting down at my computer to type up something that would be interesting enough to read... well, sorry folks...writing complete sentences with a touch of humor didn't fit into my schedule.
In other news, yes I DID in fact quit Facebook. What began as a Facebreak, ending up with me breaking up with Facebook altogether. My disillusionment with Facebook began several weeks ago when FB changed up their format. I know, change is good... change is for the better... blah, blah. But honestly, the change wasn't working for me. Then a few days later, there was a special speaker at MOPS who spoke on organization and self-management. She talked about how we as a society have become ruled by our own personal technology and that it has gotten out of hand, etc., etc. I agreed whole-heartedly and thus began my "Facebreak". I chopped my "friend" list by 240+ people and announced I was taking a break.
The very next day, I had a hair cut appointment with my fab friend and hairdresser Alison of Happy Hair Beauty Parlor and we began discussing (the not so good points of) FB and she said she stopped using FB about 3 months ago and has never looked back! When I left her shop, I had decided I would pull the plug on mine too. And I did. And it feels great. And can you believe it... NO WITHDRAWALS!
Sure, I'm gonna miss seeing pictures and reading updates on my friends and family, but I figure, if I'm good enough friends with you now, then I'll stay updated anyway. Right now, I just don't need the brain clutter and noise in my head. My job is too important to get bogged down in outside influences that try to distract me from what I need to be doing as a wife and mom.
I have so much more to say, but my post about FB took up more space than I intended. I will leave you with this as I was moved by what our school principal spoke of at chapel yesterday. Our school has begun a "Backpack Coalition" and what that means is our school is partnering with a local public elementary school in our area to provide food for 75 kids who would normally go without food over the weekend. Our principal talked about how most of these 75 elementary aged students only get to eat what is offered at the school via the free and/or reduced lunch program. As part of our school's local missions project, we are collecting non-perishable food items each week and the high school students are making distribution bags to hand out to these 75 children in need each Friday afternoon. The food is handed out discreetly to these students so as to not embarrass them and is placed in their backpacks before they head home for the weekend.
Mrs. O'Brien mentioned a little girl from last Friday who came up to her and said, "Do you know what? Today is my birthday and this is the best birthday present ever!" I fell to pieces right then and there. Why? Well, because it was MY little girl's birthday last Friday as well. Oh my word. The tears came pouring out and I couldn't help but think that that little girl's best birthday present ever was a bag of non-perishable food. A little girl, who was no doubt, the same age as my little girl.
Thank you Lord for allowing me to be at chapel yesterday to hear the testimony of what you are doing in the lives of these kids. Kids who would otherwise go hungry. Please place before me opportunities to help those in need. Lord, thank you for your abundant blessings in my life and in the life of my family. Lord, I pray we never take for granted all that you do for us.
The funny thing is, the blog break was totally unintentional. Seriously. I've just been so stinkin' busy that the thought of me sitting down at my computer to type up something that would be interesting enough to read... well, sorry folks...writing complete sentences with a touch of humor didn't fit into my schedule.
In other news, yes I DID in fact quit Facebook. What began as a Facebreak, ending up with me breaking up with Facebook altogether. My disillusionment with Facebook began several weeks ago when FB changed up their format. I know, change is good... change is for the better... blah, blah. But honestly, the change wasn't working for me. Then a few days later, there was a special speaker at MOPS who spoke on organization and self-management. She talked about how we as a society have become ruled by our own personal technology and that it has gotten out of hand, etc., etc. I agreed whole-heartedly and thus began my "Facebreak". I chopped my "friend" list by 240+ people and announced I was taking a break.
The very next day, I had a hair cut appointment with my fab friend and hairdresser Alison of Happy Hair Beauty Parlor and we began discussing (the not so good points of) FB and she said she stopped using FB about 3 months ago and has never looked back! When I left her shop, I had decided I would pull the plug on mine too. And I did. And it feels great. And can you believe it... NO WITHDRAWALS!
Sure, I'm gonna miss seeing pictures and reading updates on my friends and family, but I figure, if I'm good enough friends with you now, then I'll stay updated anyway. Right now, I just don't need the brain clutter and noise in my head. My job is too important to get bogged down in outside influences that try to distract me from what I need to be doing as a wife and mom.
I have so much more to say, but my post about FB took up more space than I intended. I will leave you with this as I was moved by what our school principal spoke of at chapel yesterday. Our school has begun a "Backpack Coalition" and what that means is our school is partnering with a local public elementary school in our area to provide food for 75 kids who would normally go without food over the weekend. Our principal talked about how most of these 75 elementary aged students only get to eat what is offered at the school via the free and/or reduced lunch program. As part of our school's local missions project, we are collecting non-perishable food items each week and the high school students are making distribution bags to hand out to these 75 children in need each Friday afternoon. The food is handed out discreetly to these students so as to not embarrass them and is placed in their backpacks before they head home for the weekend.
Mrs. O'Brien mentioned a little girl from last Friday who came up to her and said, "Do you know what? Today is my birthday and this is the best birthday present ever!" I fell to pieces right then and there. Why? Well, because it was MY little girl's birthday last Friday as well. Oh my word. The tears came pouring out and I couldn't help but think that that little girl's best birthday present ever was a bag of non-perishable food. A little girl, who was no doubt, the same age as my little girl.
Thank you Lord for allowing me to be at chapel yesterday to hear the testimony of what you are doing in the lives of these kids. Kids who would otherwise go hungry. Please place before me opportunities to help those in need. Lord, thank you for your abundant blessings in my life and in the life of my family. Lord, I pray we never take for granted all that you do for us.
07 October, 2011
Happy Birthday Kyla Mae!
Today is my baby's 8th birthday! (Sniff-sniff)
I can't believe that she is already 8 years old!
I can't believe that she is already 8 years old!
I pray that this year will bring you much happiness and joy (and compliance... hah!)
Love, Mommy
23 September, 2011
Breathe In & Breathe Out
Now that Randy's home, I can take a moment to decompress and breathe in and breathe out!
As I mentioned in my last post, the 10 days that Randy was out of the country were hand's down the busiest 10 days of my adult life. Let's just say... I'm glad I'm not a single parent, because I don't think I could ever possibly manage it all AND keep my sanity at the same time. If I wasn't coming, I was going... or waiting... or attending... or driving... GOODNESS, the driving... and very little sleeping. Throw in a dog-sitting gig on behalf of my mom and dad who have been on vacation these last 9 days and you have the makin's of a very tired and very frazzled mom.
About 12 hours after Randy got home yesterday, it all caught up to me and I balled like a baby. I didn't realize how stressed out I was, until I didn't have to be stressed out anymore.
I have friends who husband's are military men on active duty and I honestly don't know how they do it. (Erica McM... you amazed me when Chris was away!) I also have friends whose husbands work off-shore or travel consistently for their jobs... Again, how do they manage? All I can say is THANK THE LORD I have a husband who works a great job, who has great hours and who takes my kids to their team practices! I know not everyone is as fortunate and trust me... I do not take it for granted. Not now, not ever!
Speaking of traveling... in less than two months, we'll be heading out to Disney World for our family vacation. We are beyond excited and can't wait to go back. I mentioned to Randy that I was hesitant to mention to anyone that we were going to Disney World (again) because we just went in May 2010. But he reminded me that we sacrificed vacations for nearly 10 years (both due to finances and his job schedule) and that we should not be ashamed of taking another vacation so soon... even BACK to Disney World, if that's what we choose to do. Goodness knows, we seem to sacrifice a lot around here, or at least a lot more than most people, so I agree... I'm not going to be worried what other people think about our family's vacation plans!
With that said... I'll probably talk a bit about Disney planning in the coming week, although, I put so much effort in planning the last trip, I think most of my planning is already done for me! And this time around, I'm not planning the trip for 9 people... just us four this time!
And that's about it for now. Busy weekend and next week seems to be booked up already. When did I get so busy? (Are we the only ones?!)
As I mentioned in my last post, the 10 days that Randy was out of the country were hand's down the busiest 10 days of my adult life. Let's just say... I'm glad I'm not a single parent, because I don't think I could ever possibly manage it all AND keep my sanity at the same time. If I wasn't coming, I was going... or waiting... or attending... or driving... GOODNESS, the driving... and very little sleeping. Throw in a dog-sitting gig on behalf of my mom and dad who have been on vacation these last 9 days and you have the makin's of a very tired and very frazzled mom.
About 12 hours after Randy got home yesterday, it all caught up to me and I balled like a baby. I didn't realize how stressed out I was, until I didn't have to be stressed out anymore.
I have friends who husband's are military men on active duty and I honestly don't know how they do it. (Erica McM... you amazed me when Chris was away!) I also have friends whose husbands work off-shore or travel consistently for their jobs... Again, how do they manage? All I can say is THANK THE LORD I have a husband who works a great job, who has great hours and who takes my kids to their team practices! I know not everyone is as fortunate and trust me... I do not take it for granted. Not now, not ever!
Speaking of traveling... in less than two months, we'll be heading out to Disney World for our family vacation. We are beyond excited and can't wait to go back. I mentioned to Randy that I was hesitant to mention to anyone that we were going to Disney World (again) because we just went in May 2010. But he reminded me that we sacrificed vacations for nearly 10 years (both due to finances and his job schedule) and that we should not be ashamed of taking another vacation so soon... even BACK to Disney World, if that's what we choose to do. Goodness knows, we seem to sacrifice a lot around here, or at least a lot more than most people, so I agree... I'm not going to be worried what other people think about our family's vacation plans!
With that said... I'll probably talk a bit about Disney planning in the coming week, although, I put so much effort in planning the last trip, I think most of my planning is already done for me! And this time around, I'm not planning the trip for 9 people... just us four this time!
And that's about it for now. Busy weekend and next week seems to be booked up already. When did I get so busy? (Are we the only ones?!)
21 September, 2011
The longest birthday on record!
This trip to Taiwan was not planned. In fact, we were at my girls' soccer game on Saturday morning when he got a call from his BIG boss asking if he could fly out to Taiwan on Monday to fix an equipment issue for one of their clients. Randy has earned the reputation of being the 'cleaner'. If you got a problem, he'll clean up your mess and fix the problem that got you into the mess! And, that's what he did.
So, now, he's flying home! Yippee!
And today is his birthday... He celebrated his birthday in Taiwan yesterday (Sept 21). And, he's celebrating his birthday in the U.S. today (Sept 21). He is officially celebrating the longest actual birth date on record. There's got to be some kind of special reward for that... perhaps DOUBLE FUDGE chocolate cake? Perhaps, perhaps!
So, happy birthday my man!
You ROCK my world in more ways than one!
14 September, 2011
Just had to share
We're having a low key birthday celebration for Kyla this year, but I still wanted to design her a birthday party invite to send to her 2 invitees!
I love how this turned out and I just had to share!
Gain some perspective girlfriend!
Dang, we're already 3 full weeks into school and I'm already feeling the stress and over-burden of it all. IT... meaning... school, homework, commute, emails, homework (yes, I said it twice), meal planning/preparing, school activities, school sports, club sports, practices, games... etc. etc. Seems like I'm meeting myself coming and going.
And, y'all... this is my FULL-TIME job. Being a stay at home wife and mother. I honestly don't know how working mothers do it, but bless you for doing it. I'm fortunate enough to be a stay at home parent, otherwise, believe you me... our lives would be in a tailspin if I ever attempted to work full time in addition to what I'm doing now. Because truth be told, I gave up my pursuit of the "Super Mom" title a long time ago.
But, even though I'm no longer pledging to be Super Mom, I still find myself stressed out, over-burdened and in a slump some days. And that feeling, my friends, stinks!
So, on Monday it just kind of hit me like a ton of bricks. And that is... PERSPECTIVE.
When my stressed out funkiness comes out, really I all I need to do is stop and think PERSPECTIVE. It's all in how we perceive our chaos.
So, I choose, this week (and beyond) to stop and take a step back and say... "Gain some perspective girlfriend" and begin handling my life stressors in a way that will benefit those around me, rather than be to their detriment.
Because as I'm quickly learning... it ain't always about ME.
And, y'all... this is my FULL-TIME job. Being a stay at home wife and mother. I honestly don't know how working mothers do it, but bless you for doing it. I'm fortunate enough to be a stay at home parent, otherwise, believe you me... our lives would be in a tailspin if I ever attempted to work full time in addition to what I'm doing now. Because truth be told, I gave up my pursuit of the "Super Mom" title a long time ago.
But, even though I'm no longer pledging to be Super Mom, I still find myself stressed out, over-burdened and in a slump some days. And that feeling, my friends, stinks!
So, on Monday it just kind of hit me like a ton of bricks. And that is... PERSPECTIVE.
When my stressed out funkiness comes out, really I all I need to do is stop and think PERSPECTIVE. It's all in how we perceive our chaos.
So, I choose, this week (and beyond) to stop and take a step back and say... "Gain some perspective girlfriend" and begin handling my life stressors in a way that will benefit those around me, rather than be to their detriment.
Because as I'm quickly learning... it ain't always about ME.
07 September, 2011
Catching up
It looks like our summer hibernation just might be over... or at least, on the verge of being over. I'm so glad for cooler temperatures. Now, if we could just get some rain...
Speaking of rain, dear God, please send us some rain. Not only to help us with the drought situation, but also with the raging wildfires that are plaguing this area. We need you on this one Lord!
And speaking of wildfires, one of Randy's friends lost their home to the fires in Bastrop on Sunday. Thankfully, they were out of town for the long weekend and no one was injured. I cannot imagine what they are going through... them and the 500+ other families going through the same thing all throughout Central Texas. I pray that the loss of life continue to be minimal and that the fires will be contained quickly.
In other news, it has recently come to my attention that I have not posted pictures from the girls' first day of school. Better late than never? I know, I can hardly believe that I have been remiss in adding their back to school picture. It's certainly NOT like me. The girls are loving school this year, which is always a blessing. So happy to have kids who not only love school, but who want to do well and work hard.
And since I don't want to leave out my youngest, here's a picture of Kyla hard at work during soccer practice. Randy takes the girls out each evening and works with them for about an hour. Their skills have vastly improved and it's been a good bonding experience for him and them. I'm so thankful for a husband who takes time out of his day to spend time with his kids!
Speaking of rain, dear God, please send us some rain. Not only to help us with the drought situation, but also with the raging wildfires that are plaguing this area. We need you on this one Lord!
In other news, it has recently come to my attention that I have not posted pictures from the girls' first day of school. Better late than never? I know, I can hardly believe that I have been remiss in adding their back to school picture. It's certainly NOT like me. The girls are loving school this year, which is always a blessing. So happy to have kids who not only love school, but who want to do well and work hard.
Elisan (5th grade/age 10)
Kyla (2nd grade/age 7)
As you may recall, Elisan made the "Rock the Flock" praise and worship team at school. Their first time on stage was this week and they did an amazing job! I was so proud of my ROCKER!
And since I don't want to leave out my youngest, here's a picture of Kyla hard at work during soccer practice. Randy takes the girls out each evening and works with them for about an hour. Their skills have vastly improved and it's been a good bonding experience for him and them. I'm so thankful for a husband who takes time out of his day to spend time with his kids!
We covet your prayers here in Central Texas. Please remember us.
31 August, 2011
Turning the tables - just for today...
Okay, so after my post yesterday about how I've lived vicariously through my children for the last 10 years, I have the need to rant. Just a little. And, it's about my child being "mistreated".
Of course, I'm not objective AT all here. Everything I'm about to write about is my opinion and goodness, help me if Randy happens upon this post, because he'll be mad at me for airing out a rant on a public forum, but here goes:
Just a little background information...My 10 year old has been playing soccer since she was 5 years old. She has always played with teams that are a grade below her because of where her birthday landed on the calendar. (Example: Last year, she was the oldest player on her team and in 4th grade, yet played on a team of 3rd graders, etc.) Honestly, it has been a better fit for her for her to play with kids who are not towering over her because the truth of the matter is, Elisan is a very petite child.
So, they had team tryouts last week. There's a whole new batch of coaches this year and Elisan was so excited to see all of her former teammates again!
Well, as you can probably guess, Elisan was not placed on the same team she was on last year, and in fact, it appears as if she was placed on the 3rd string team with new team members and honestly we (Randy and I) believe it has mostly to do with her size, not her skill. Now, I'm not saying that skill was not a factor in the team distribution. Of course not...because honestly, Elisan is not a very fast runner. But, she's a very intuitive player and to put it bluntly,... she's aggressive and not afraid to get down and dirty when needed.
So, her landing on a third string team just really took us all by surprise. Granted, I don't want to be "that" parent who complains and bullies our way onto the better team. But, as a mom, I'll tell you... I want to call up the coaches and tell them a thing or two. Randy on the other hand wants her skill to overshadow her size and not say a thing because we will not be doing her any favors for swooping and in saving the day for her.
Man, I could swing both directions on this dilemma. Let the conviction begin... "It ain't about mama" or mama's feelings. Sigh...
Of course, I'm not objective AT all here. Everything I'm about to write about is my opinion and goodness, help me if Randy happens upon this post, because he'll be mad at me for airing out a rant on a public forum, but here goes:
Just a little background information...My 10 year old has been playing soccer since she was 5 years old. She has always played with teams that are a grade below her because of where her birthday landed on the calendar. (Example: Last year, she was the oldest player on her team and in 4th grade, yet played on a team of 3rd graders, etc.) Honestly, it has been a better fit for her for her to play with kids who are not towering over her because the truth of the matter is, Elisan is a very petite child.
So, they had team tryouts last week. There's a whole new batch of coaches this year and Elisan was so excited to see all of her former teammates again!
Well, as you can probably guess, Elisan was not placed on the same team she was on last year, and in fact, it appears as if she was placed on the 3rd string team with new team members and honestly we (Randy and I) believe it has mostly to do with her size, not her skill. Now, I'm not saying that skill was not a factor in the team distribution. Of course not...because honestly, Elisan is not a very fast runner. But, she's a very intuitive player and to put it bluntly,... she's aggressive and not afraid to get down and dirty when needed.
So, her landing on a third string team just really took us all by surprise. Granted, I don't want to be "that" parent who complains and bullies our way onto the better team. But, as a mom, I'll tell you... I want to call up the coaches and tell them a thing or two. Randy on the other hand wants her skill to overshadow her size and not say a thing because we will not be doing her any favors for swooping and in saving the day for her.
Man, I could swing both directions on this dilemma. Let the conviction begin... "It ain't about mama" or mama's feelings. Sigh...
30 August, 2011
It ain't about mama
Y'all, it's time to 'fess up and be transparent here. And I'll be the first to admit... this pains me to talk about. It really does. You know why? Because I've come to realize something. It's not about mama.
Okay, let's get one thing out of the way. It's never been about me. It's about God. Always has been, always will be.
But, I'm going to bring the "It's Not About Mama" issue closer to home.
As a stay at home wife and mother, my JOB is to care for my family. That means, doing everything "home related" stuff, plus "wife related" stuff, plus "kid related" stuff. I love what I do and I'm blessed to have a husband who supports me and our decision for me to do just that... take care of the home/wife/kid related duties.
In my "kid related" stuff, it means stepping in and helping my kids be as successful as possible.
And you know what? It's not about me. It's not my accomplishment. It's not my report card. It's not my team. It's not my song. It's not my "win". It's not my award. It's not mine at all.
And how often do I stand back and pat myself on the shoulder for MY job well done? Ummm....to be completely transparent... EVERY TIME!
My child's triumphs (and failures) do not define me as a mom. They are theirs and theirs alone.
What does define me as a mom, is that I raise my kids to be respectful human beings, make good choices, work hard and love others. That's it. That is MY defining moment. And if I can't succeed in that... then I have no business patting myself on the shoulder for anything.
That's not to say that I won't ever be proud of my kids ever again. Certainly not! I will always, always be proud of my kids. I'll be the one beaming the brightest whenever they triumph in life. And, I'll be there to pick them up when they fail. Because that's my job.
But, I've come to realize that they have to make their life their own. They don't need the added pressure of mama trying to "live the dream" with them.
And that my friends, is ALSO a defining moment.
Okay, let's get one thing out of the way. It's never been about me. It's about God. Always has been, always will be.
But, I'm going to bring the "It's Not About Mama" issue closer to home.
As a stay at home wife and mother, my JOB is to care for my family. That means, doing everything "home related" stuff, plus "wife related" stuff, plus "kid related" stuff. I love what I do and I'm blessed to have a husband who supports me and our decision for me to do just that... take care of the home/wife/kid related duties.
In my "kid related" stuff, it means stepping in and helping my kids be as successful as possible.
- It means, helping with homework (when needed) so my kids do well in school.
- It means, when my kids get parts in musicals, I'm there to help them practice.
- It means, when my kids get selected to play on a team sport, we're their biggest fans.
- It means, when their team wins, we get to celebrate the victory.
- It means, when my kids get a good conduct report, academic award or special acknowledgement for their accomplishments, we as parents get to stand back, with puffed out chests, saying... "That's MY girl!"
And you know what? It's not about me. It's not my accomplishment. It's not my report card. It's not my team. It's not my song. It's not my "win". It's not my award. It's not mine at all.
And how often do I stand back and pat myself on the shoulder for MY job well done? Ummm....to be completely transparent... EVERY TIME!
My child's triumphs (and failures) do not define me as a mom. They are theirs and theirs alone.
What does define me as a mom, is that I raise my kids to be respectful human beings, make good choices, work hard and love others. That's it. That is MY defining moment. And if I can't succeed in that... then I have no business patting myself on the shoulder for anything.
That's not to say that I won't ever be proud of my kids ever again. Certainly not! I will always, always be proud of my kids. I'll be the one beaming the brightest whenever they triumph in life. And, I'll be there to pick them up when they fail. Because that's my job.
But, I've come to realize that they have to make their life their own. They don't need the added pressure of mama trying to "live the dream" with them.
And that my friends, is ALSO a defining moment.
23 August, 2011
One last hurrah!
On Monday, the girls' and I celebrated the final days of summer with a GIRLS' DAY OUT filled with shopping and lunch!
I so cherish the time I've been able to spend with my girls this summer. I just cannot put it into words... or else I'll get all teary-eyed and mushy. But, what a great way to cap off a great summer. Here a glimpse of our day!
I so cherish the time I've been able to spend with my girls this summer. I just cannot put it into words... or else I'll get all teary-eyed and mushy. But, what a great way to cap off a great summer. Here a glimpse of our day!
I LOVE these girls.
19 August, 2011
Fun School Notes!
Only 5 days until school begins in our household. I don't know if I want to cry or... well, cry. This summer has been amazing and I've loved every second of having my little chickadees at home with me!
Several days ago, my friend Kim sent me a link to some fun school notes. I thought they were fun too so I decided to create my own set, customized, of course!
Please note, the details/contents of the notes are not from me. I am not that thorough and I would have probably left out a ton of stuff like... the section for my child's name, etc. I did however, revamp the design to make it more suitable to my taste and preferences.
EDITED TO ADD: The "FUN SCHOOL NOTES" has been so popular on Pinterest, I've made a freebie blank set available for download here! Each .pdf file is formatted with three "FUN SCHOOL NOTES" per page. ENJOY!
16 August, 2011
The long awaited post!
Yea, I know, y'all've been waiting with bated breath for this post. The post that should be entitled... "What the heck I've been doing for the last two weeks or more!"
Let me say, this is the FIRST DAY in a long list of days that we are staying home and NOT going anywhere. School begins next week and we are finally done with everything. Indoor soccer, YMCA Volleyball, 10th birthday party (and party prep...more on that later), traveling, etc. We just needed a DOWN DAY.
This in essence is going to be a big ol blog brain dump. So, skim through the parts you aren't interested in...
Class Reunion
My 20 year high school reunion was two weeks ago. Let me be the first to say that it was awesome seeing people I haven't seen since the last 10 year class reunion (or since high school graduation.) I loved catching up and meeting peoples' families. But, as expected, I mostly visited with people that I was closest to in high school. By 10 p.m., I was ready to go. So much of ME has changed, there isn't much commonality any longer. And that's okay! I didn't expect it and I wasn't disappointed!
All in all, I'm glad I went, it was everything I expected it to be and at times it was MOST entertaining.
And since there was much discussion as to what I would wear to my class reunion, you'll be happy to know that I found the cutest dress at White House Black Market. It's so stinking cute, very flattering and can either be dressed up or dressed down. I wore this dress with some jeweled flip flops for a more casual dressed down look!
And, this dress - Voile Printed Sundress - is now on sale for $60.00! Don't worry, I got it on sale too. Not for $60.... but, close!
Randy & Erica, 8/6/11
10th Birthday Party
Elisan's 10th birthday party was last Friday night. Because we're so much alike, she's been planning this party for over 4 months. She had very specific ideas as to what she wanted to do, how she wanted it to look and who was invited. (I love that about my type-A personality daughter!)
So, I began working on all the party prep stuff at least a month ago... maybe more. Here's how it turned out.
The free PLH digital kit is still available for download here.
This project is pretty self explanatory. My only change in the project would be to use white school glue, rather than a glue stick. I had a few that began pulling away from the wood one they dried completely. The ones I did with the white school glue did not pull away.
Also, in photo 3, on the top row, I'm sanding the paper edges for a smooth finish. Hot glue a magnet on the back and there ya go!
This was a CHEAP, fun and easy craft. A great take-away for the girls and something that will last a long time.
That's all for now folks. I'll leave you with this... a picture of my sweet little guy, TJ. Now, if I can only get him to NOT poop in the upstairs family room. Sigh...
At least he's consistent. And for my sake, at least we can gate off the upstairs!
Let me say, this is the FIRST DAY in a long list of days that we are staying home and NOT going anywhere. School begins next week and we are finally done with everything. Indoor soccer, YMCA Volleyball, 10th birthday party (and party prep...more on that later), traveling, etc. We just needed a DOWN DAY.
This in essence is going to be a big ol blog brain dump. So, skim through the parts you aren't interested in...
Class Reunion
My 20 year high school reunion was two weeks ago. Let me be the first to say that it was awesome seeing people I haven't seen since the last 10 year class reunion (or since high school graduation.) I loved catching up and meeting peoples' families. But, as expected, I mostly visited with people that I was closest to in high school. By 10 p.m., I was ready to go. So much of ME has changed, there isn't much commonality any longer. And that's okay! I didn't expect it and I wasn't disappointed!
All in all, I'm glad I went, it was everything I expected it to be and at times it was MOST entertaining.
And since there was much discussion as to what I would wear to my class reunion, you'll be happy to know that I found the cutest dress at White House Black Market. It's so stinking cute, very flattering and can either be dressed up or dressed down. I wore this dress with some jeweled flip flops for a more casual dressed down look!
And, this dress - Voile Printed Sundress - is now on sale for $60.00! Don't worry, I got it on sale too. Not for $60.... but, close!
Randy & Erica, 8/6/11
10th Birthday Party
Elisan's 10th birthday party was last Friday night. Because we're so much alike, she's been planning this party for over 4 months. She had very specific ideas as to what she wanted to do, how she wanted it to look and who was invited. (I love that about my type-A personality daughter!)
So, I began working on all the party prep stuff at least a month ago... maybe more. Here's how it turned out.
The free PLH digital kit is still available for download here.
This was such an easy party! We served pizza for dinner, then brought the girls down to the neighborhood pool for swimming. After swimming, Randy and I set up a 14 topping Sundae Buffet for ice cream sundaes! The ice cream sundaes were a HUGE hit and I think this may be our new go-to idea for birthday parties. The girls finished up the evening with presents and karaoke. Fun was had by all!
Craft Tutorial
For the party, I also worked on a craft project. I made magnets for the goodie bags using round wooden pieces, Mod Podge Dimensional Magic and the PLH round circles that I designed. The circles can also be used as stickers, tags or cupcake toppers.
This project is pretty self explanatory. My only change in the project would be to use white school glue, rather than a glue stick. I had a few that began pulling away from the wood one they dried completely. The ones I did with the white school glue did not pull away.
Also, in photo 3, on the top row, I'm sanding the paper edges for a smooth finish. Hot glue a magnet on the back and there ya go!
This was a CHEAP, fun and easy craft. A great take-away for the girls and something that will last a long time.
That's all for now folks. I'll leave you with this... a picture of my sweet little guy, TJ. Now, if I can only get him to NOT poop in the upstairs family room. Sigh...
At least he's consistent. And for my sake, at least we can gate off the upstairs!
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