- I now notice other kids. I never paid any attention to other people's kids, but I have been noticing them the last two days and I think, 'Aw, look at that kid. Her mommy is still able to be at home with her!'
- I bought the big haul of groceries for the FIRST time in seven years without kids. I was there two hours. TWO HOURS. You know why? Because I was actually able to read labels, price compare and look around. I wasn't rushing in and out trying to get home. It was nice. But, I'll admit, I missed the kid chatter and company that my girls bring.
- People do not talk to you if you don't have kids. People would always say a friendly word (or even a polite nod) when I have the girls with me. Now? Nothing. Even in the check out lines at the store...nothing. These are the same people I see at the grocery store every week who are so friendly and nice (when I have kids with me.) But, now? I'm just a plain jane person.
- The house is quiet. Yesterday I wandered around the house wondering what I should do. Don't worry, I didn't do that for too long... but it was weird being home by my self.
- I've been opening the sliding van doors when I park. I've been opening the sliding van doors when I come back.
- I don't have empty candy wrappers in my purse now.
27 August, 2008
It's weird
It's weird being without kids. I've noticed a few things.
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I noticed the same thing about the grocery store chatter after Caroline was born. I'm not unfriendly, but I'm not overly outgoing. When I have the kid with me, though, I have to talk to people because they talk to us! It's nice, even for this shy girl. I'll probably miss the attention when I start shopping alone.
ReplyDeletei wonder how long it will last? I mean the car door opening, the kid watching, grocery dawdling... I wonder if you will like HEB now?
ReplyDeleteI'm new to your blog so at first I thought you were talking about having a totally empty nest.
ReplyDeleteI now see the pic of your children and they're beautiful.
I have to agree with Ashley above, your girls are gorgeous and you are amazingly talented - thanks for the adorable and totally 'girlie' headers - I'll probably be picking your creative brain for more ideas! I love it when I can do anything foo-foo and pink! (3 Teenage boys + 1 husband = 1 house FULL of TESTosterone!)
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